When Mats Steen was slightly boy, he beloved a small ceramic fox. In his native Norway, a fox is a “reven.”
His mom, Trude, says he carried in all places. Again then, he may nonetheless stroll on his personal.
He was 7 years previous when a wheelchair arrived at his home. His dad and mom anticipated he would wish it quickly, as his muscle tissue weakened attributable to a uncommon situation, Duchenne muscular dystrophy. He hated the wheelchair, so it stayed within the hallway. Despite the fact that he was stumbling and falling, he didn’t need to use it. Ultimately, he needed to.
As an grownup he was given a miniature fox as a birthday present, one thing that was pricey to him and that he noticed on daily basis on his front room shelf. When Mats handed away in 2014 on the age of 25, the Steens designed a headstone with a fox carving.
A digital model of that headstone seems in World of Warcraft (WoW), a massively multiplayer on-line sport (MMO) that was an enormous a part of their son’s final eight years of life. What they didn’t know till after he died was how huge of an influence he made on others whereas he was there.
The general public meets the non-public eye
Within the role-playing setting of World of Warcraft, Mats was often known as Ibelin, a strong and charming non-public investigator with a muscular physique and lengthy purple hair. His welcoming smile and delicate nature made him common with different gamers.
When WoW created an in-game tribute to him, the Reven Pack, which might additionally elevate funds for CureDuchenne, a corporation that helps analysis, early analysis and entry to therapy, the sport’s producers selected a wily fox sporting a detective hat who could possibly be carried by gamers in his personal customized backpack.
In a little bit of kismet, the World of Warcraft artist who created the character, backpack and headstone for the fundraising collaboration can also be named Mats and can also be Norwegian. The fundraiser runs via Jan. 7, 10 a.m. PST*.
In January, “The Exceptional Lifetime of Ibelin” premiered on the 2024 Sundance Movie Pageant, the place it gained over audiences with the story of Mats and his life inside World of Warcraft, a legacy that surpasses the digital house.
Norwegian filmmaker Benjamin Ree learn a BBC article about Mats in 2019 and was impressed to hunt out the Steens and Mats’ mates in WoW to make a movie about his story.
At Sundance, Ree’s documentary gained the Directing and Viewers awards within the World Cinema/Documentary class, resulting in a streaming take care of Netflix. Subscribers have been in a position to start watching it in late October earlier than the tenth anniversary of Mats’ dying on Nov. 18. It’s additionally on the shortlist within the Documentary Characteristic Movie class for the 97th Academy Awards (2025).
In honor of the influence Mats made in Norway, the nation created the Ibelin Award, which might be granted yearly beginning in autumn 2025 to an individual thought of a job mannequin for avid gamers – somebody who takes care of others.
Making a distinction with out ever assembly in individual
Mats’ avatar as a non-public investigator wasn’t totally fictional. He saved his wealthy gaming life and neighborhood non-public – so his influence was a shock even to his dad and mom.
“We knew that he was a superb listener, however we had no respect for the digital gaming platform being an space the place you possibly can really use this skill for something,” says Robert Steen, who served 4 years as Oslo’s vice mayor of finance and 4 years as vice mayor of well being.
He and his spouse even have an older daughter, Mia. “We have been very a lot basic dad and mom born within the ‘60s and we tried to restrict the variety of hours they spent in entrance of the display. We had no thought about all these individuals he had interacted with and helped in numerous methods.”
Robert recalled considered one of Mats’ mates in World of Warcraft, Lisette (aka “Hearsay”), who can also be outstanding within the movie.
“Her dad and mom thought they have been going to assist her by taking her laptop away,” he says. “However what they really did with out realizing it was to take her mates away, which led to this very deep melancholy that might have gone mistaken if she didn’t have individuals like Mats to be there for her and lead her via that course of.”
The movie exhibits how Mats wrote Lisette’s dad and mom a letter to elucidate how necessary being a part of their World of Warcraft neighborhood was, and that it was an actual neighborhood who met in actual life.
Mats, although, resisted these in-person conferences. He may nonetheless speak at that stage of the illness, however he selected to not go on digicam or take part in voice chats together with his many mates within the sport. It took a very long time for him to disclose his situation to them, and when he did so, it was via a weblog put up.
His dad and mom used that very same weblog to inform his on-line mates about his dying and to go away their electronic mail deal with. The following day, messages from his neighborhood poured in.
‘Emotional coronary heart of the guild’
Kai Simon Fredriksen, who can also be based mostly in Oslo, met Mats in World of Warcraft via their neighborhood – the Starlight Guild. Guilds are player-organized teams that present a social construction for WoW avid gamers. Inside these teams, they’ll chat with one another, workforce up on quests and missions, and share experiences.
Fredriksen calls them “the emotional coronary heart of the guild.” For him, it’s these connections that make World of Warcraft – a franchise that spans 20 years – so participating. He’s tried different MMOs, however he retains coming again to this sport. “It’s the individuals, the neighborhood,” he says.
WoW is a social place the place you might have room to inform tales – significantly necessary for position gamers like him. Quickly after he joined, Fredriksen, whose character is a con artist, grew to become the chief of the Starlight Guild. At its most energetic, there have been 40 to 50 gamers within the group.
“In the event you discover your tribe, you discover individuals who benefit from the sort of gaming expertise and neighborhood you do,” he says. “You could have a help community and other people to point out you new issues.”
Mats, via his Ibelin character, discovered Starlight via the guild’s occasions all through the sport. Fredriksen says their group had a superb fame and have been seen as one of many extra critical and established role-playing guilds, so gamers utilized to affix them. As soon as he turned 16, Mats submitted his utility.
The rigorous utility course of included two interviews, each in character and out of character, vetted by a number of Starlight members. Mats appeared to be a superb match for Starlight, somebody Fredriksen may think about on adventures, who could be dependable, enjoyable and fascinating.
What particularly stood out to Fredriksen about Mats have been his questions. He constantly took the time to hear. When he requested a fellow gamer why she was upset, for instance, and discovered that she was struggling to attach along with her teenage son, he supplied recommendations.
These conversations come to life within the movie, which used authentic animation, dozens of videocassettes from the Steens documenting Mats’ life and 1000’s of hours of logged chats from Starlight to recreate poignant moments Mats skilled within the sport.
A life ends, a legacy begins
Fredriksen didn’t find out about his buddy’s situation till almost the top of Mats’ life. After Mats handed away, the guild collected cash so members may attend his funeral.
Yearly on the anniversary of his dying, members of the guild be a part of different WoW gamers to run the identical route within the sport that Mats’ character Ibelin frequently ran when he logged on. This 12 months’s run was probably the most attended ever, due to the eye generated by the Netflix documentary. In non-public earlier that day, the guild honors him at a memorial service that his dad and mom attend as their shared dwarf avatar, whose title is Stoen2 (Ibelin’s finest buddy in WoW was a dwarf referred to as Stoen).
“[The Steens] have come to know gaming so significantly better, they usually need to speak to different dad and mom about this,” Fredriksen says. “It’s a really private and painful story. But it surely’s additionally common within the expertise of being in a neighborhood, of getting individuals interact with you and construct relationships.”
Sharing a brand new understanding of gaming with different dad and mom
After Mats died, the Steens discovered solace in a brand new understanding of their son’s vibrant interior life. That he had saved it non-public ignited a hearth in them: to assist different dad and mom notice the advantages of gaming and the way it fosters connections amongst gamers.
“We’ve been asking ourselves the query, ‘Why did we not see this whereas he was alive?’ As a result of we lived below the identical roof for all his life, we noticed one another on daily basis and nonetheless there have been so many issues we didn’t see. We don’t find out about them as a result of a very powerful issues of our lives occur inside our heads,” says Robert.
“We solely tried to take a seat beside him and watch the display with out understanding what was occurring. So, after half an hour or so, we received bored. We left for the actual display, which is known as tv in Norway. Soccer was on the tv, and I perceive soccer.”
Gaming is the largest leisure exercise in Norway – greater than 85% of all teenagers sport frequently. The Steens have turn into extra knowledgeable concerning the nationwide pastime and are captivated with discussing it with different dad and mom.
“If we as dad and mom ought to have any likelihood of being guiding and supporting forces, we have to perceive what’s going on on this digital world,” Robert says. “You shouldn’t take over their world, however it is best to present respect and curiosity.”
Hawken Miller is grateful to the Steens for passing on their classes to his dad and mom. Like Mats, he has Duchenne and is a longtime gamer. He’ll flip 28 on the final day of the World of Warcraft charity marketing campaign.
He was about 6 years previous when his dad and mom gave him a Sport Boy, and he finally constructed his personal PC gaming rig as a result of it was simpler to play with a keyboard and mouse. As a journalist, he lined esports, creating weapon loadout guides for The Washington Publish and sport critiques.
“I’m glad that this documentary will help my mother and lots of different dad and mom perceive that there’s extra to what meets the attention,” says Hawken. “You’re attempting to be somebody you aren’t in actual life, and it’s particularly highly effective if somebody has a incapacity they usually can’t do all these issues. It’s the closest factor that they may come to doing it in actual life, in order that undoubtedly resonated with me.”
He says that simply being in a sport with others frequently gives the socializing that folks crave of their busy lives.
“If you already know it’s 6:30 p.m., on a weekday and among the guys are going to be on, simply to have that place to hang around and play with them, is constructing a connection, even for those who aren’t speaking about your lives,” he says.
Hawken’s mom, Debra Miller, who based CureDuchenne greater than 20 years in the past after Hawken was identified, says she was a “typical mother” who gave her son a tough time about spending an excessive amount of time on video video games, particularly after he graduated from USC in 2019 and moved again dwelling. That become an prolonged keep when the pandemic lockdowns occurred. It took studying about Mats and assembly the Steens to vary her viewpoint on gaming.
“After we got here again, there was one night time that my husband and I have been watching TV, and we may hear Hawken taking part in a sport on-line and he was laughing, trash speaking and simply having a good time. It gave me an entire completely different perspective on what he’s doing,” she says. “Beforehand, I thought of his time on video video games to be completely leisure and on the expense of both faculty or work or true relationships, however I’m now in a position to higher perceive the relationship-building inside the sport.”
Each era is luckier than the earlier era
Debra, Hawken’s mother, is hopeful that new remedies on the horizon will permit her son and others with Duchenne to reside longer, a direct results of the work her group has funded over the previous twenty years.
“Each era is luckier than the earlier era,” she says of the developments in therapy.
She had by no means heard of Duchenne — a uncommon genetic situation that causes progressive muscle injury and weak point — earlier than Hawken’s analysis. She labored in promoting gross sales and know-how earlier than founding CureDuchenne.
The nonprofit group helps fund early-stage biotech corporations that develop promising, novel science for treating Duchenne and has invested greater than $26 million in analysis since its creation greater than 20 years in the past. These investments have paved the way in which for enterprise capital corporations and pharmaceutical corporations to speculate an extra $3.65 billion instantly into these biotech corporations, additional advancing their packages.
CureDuchenne has additionally created assets and help workshops across the nation for households with Duchenne, together with an annual nationwide convention that includes a gaming lounge the place children from across the nation can play video video games collectively.
‘Video games can change lives’
Whereas Blizzard, the studio behind WoW, had reached out to the Steens after studying about Mats in 2019, they have been unaware of the movie till it had already been within the works for 3 years. As soon as they screened the almost-finished model, they granted their full help to make use of their mental property within the animation.
“There are moments on this enterprise the place you acknowledge that we make leisure, however typically it’s greater than that,” says Holly Longdale, a 20-year-plus veteran within the gaming business and govt producer of World of Warcraft. “We actually see the influence on somebody’s life, how video games can change lives. These are the recollections in a profession that actually matter.”
Mats’ memorial has drawn not simply those that knew him, however others who need to keep in mind somebody they misplaced, says Longdale, whose profession has centered primarily on MMOs. She isn’t stunned that bonds are so significant and longstanding inside WoW. She’s identified gamers who’ve met in-game, gotten married, had youngsters and now play with their youngsters in-game.
Individuals begin connecting with one another based mostly on how they play, in order that they discover one another on the planet, she says. Mats and his guild discovered one another, partly, as a result of they recognized as like-minded position gamers.
“The wonder and relatability of World of Warcraft as a world is definitely epic. And it may be darkish, preventing monsters and stuff,” Longdale says.
“However the world itself is stuffed with whimsy, humor, love and life. And it’s a place you’ll be able to simply hand around in. For instance, within the cities, there’s all the time individuals milling about and other people dancing on mailboxes. Even for those who’re simply on by your self, you by no means really feel alone.”
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Lead photograph: Mats Steen, as seen in “The Exceptional Lifetime of Ibelin.” (Photograph courtesy of Robert and Trude Steen/Netflix Studios)
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